About Hear Her First
Hear Her First was created by a mother whose baby spent his first month in neonatal care after a traumatic birth.
It is the free UK support app she wishes she and her husband had been able to open when fear took over, answers felt unclear and the words were hard to find.
For the moments when something does not feel right.
Hear Her First helps mothers and birth partners find calm, practical wording during pregnancy, labour, birth, neonatal care and after birth.
It helps you ask clearer questions, explain what has changed, keep track of what you have been told and ask again when you still do not feel reassured.
Questions it can help you ask
- What has changed?
- What are you checking for?
- What happens next?
- Who should we speak to?
- What should we watch for?
- What do we do if we still feel worried?
What it helps with
- Pregnancy concerns.
- Calling maternity triage.
- Birth preferences and consent.
- Labour and birth.
- Birth partner advocacy.
- Neonatal care.
- Postnatal recovery.
- Records, debriefs and written explanations after a difficult birth.
Trust the feeling. Ask again.
You are allowed to ask. You are allowed to ask again.
How your information is used
There is no login. Hear Her First does not save anything you write into the editable boxes.
You can read, click through, copy wording and use it in whatever way feels helpful to you.