What are you worried about?
Choose what feels closest. You do not need to know the right medical words.
Or tell us what feels closest
Help me ask again
I have already asked once
When reassurance is not enough and you need to ask again calmly.
If you feel you are not being taken seriously
Phrases for when concerns are being minimised.
Keep track of what you are told
Who is responsible right now?
Ask who is making the next decision and when it will be reviewed.
Write down what was said
What to write down and what to ask to be recorded.
In the moment
Consent and choices
Ask for recommendations to be explained clearly before a decision.
Pain relief and distress
Ask for pain to be taken seriously and reviewed.
If you feel unsafe or need urgent help, use the urgent help button at the top of the screen.